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Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts

Thursday, 16 October 2008

Qualities Women Want In Men

As part of my research for a guide to style, I put together a focus group of 6 randomly chosen hot, single women between 21 and 33, to find out what styles in men they considered hot.

My goal was to find the things that they all agreed on.

The results were surprising, because the issues the women had the strongest opinions about were ones that most guys would never think of.


1. YOUR TEETH. Bad teeth are "just gross" said one blonde bombshell, to the enthusiastic agreement of the others.

So in order to not have your teeth immediately disqualify you, keep them brushed twice a day, flossing at least once. And if they're rotten or badly stained, see your dentist ASAP.

However, don't go crazy with the teeth whitener. "No one wants to kiss Chiclet Mouth," added the blonde.

2. YOUR HANDS. Women notice right off the bat if your hands are covered with dirt or grease.

"If you work with your hands," said one woman, "that's not the first thing a woman should notice about you."

So auto mechanics, construction workers, and other blue collar types, listen up.

"It's not what a person does," explained another chick. "It's just about taking care of yourself. If you can't even wash your hands, what does that say about you?"

3. YOUR CLOTHES. When you're wearing jeans, leave the tennis shoes at home.

"I am a believer that athletic gear is for exercise," said a part-time model in her mid-20s. "Some boys wear only tennis shoes and that's just annoying. It shows immaturity."

Good shoes instead are loafers or boots.

Try to be neat without being anal. "You should not look sloppy," said the blonde, "but don't look so put together that you appear obsessive-compulsive."

And, be an individual, agreed the women. If you've got that one shirt that only you love, you should still wear it, even if it is somewhat "uncool." For example, take a hawaiian shirt with a flamingo on it. Some guy who absolutely loves it can wear that shirt.

So the bottom is that a few guys can indeed pull off wearing the tennis shoes.

Sound confusing? It isn't once you realize that the simple test is this: Are you wearing clothes that display your core personality?

As one woman explained it, "You should be comfortable with what you're wearing and like what you're wearing, because women will pick up on that."

So in other words, the perfect style for you comes down to personal preferences and your individual sense of style. You can't make one rule for everything, except just be your genuine self.

Tuesday, 7 October 2008

Learn The Art Of Flirting to Increase Your Chance of Getting The Girl

Many people believe that the art of flirting is something that you either have or you don't. The art of flirting can be mastered by anyone. All it takes is practice.
The first thing to know about the art of flirting is that it s something, which can be done by anyone. It doesn't require you to have a sporty physique, or handsome, chiselled features. The art of flirting emphasises the qualities that are unique to you and teaches you how to make the most of these. In this way, the art of flirting begins from the inside.

So what can you do to make sure others know you are a fantastic person? You need to understand how to use non-verbal communication to flirt successfully. The eyes are the window to the soul and they are also an excellent starting point for learning how to flirt. Have you ever glanced around a room and then suddenly a stranger catches your gaze? What is it about you that caught and held someone's attention, even if only momentarily? People like people who are attracted to them. Flirting is a skill that harnesses the many different types of gaze. The routine of making eye contact, holding it, breaking it, and then engaging again is one of the most basic yet effective methods in your flirting arsenal. This lets the person know you want to flirt with them, and you'll learn how to determine if they are interested from the reaction they give. You can also take this to the next level to let them know you are having 'impure' thoughts about them! Tell them you are looking to 'devour' them by holding their gaze even longer and breaking only to glance up and down their body.

Eye contact is obviously crucial, but should be used along with other kinds of body language. Positioning your body in such a manner that shows you are open to communication is crucial to the art of flirting. Flirting is a combination of being able to read their signals whilst also revealing your intentions. There's no need to think of flirting as something which other people do. You just need to be taught the key skills and how to practice them. Then go out and have some fun!

Friday, 15 August 2008

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Wednesday, 10 October 2007

How Does A Man Attract A Woman

How does a man attract a woman? There is no big mystery in what's involved, but there are some key things you must do to increase your chances of attracting women. Not just any women either. Follow this advice and you will be able to attract the beautiful girls you always thought out of your league.

Here are 7 key factors I have used in attracting women:


  • Be Confident
    There is a fine line between being confident and being cocky. Although there are time when being cocky could be an asset, in the beginning stages of a relationship or when you are trying to get the girl leave the cockiness at home. It will most likely attract the wrong kind of girl. Confidence is key for women. No woman wants a guy that always hangs his head and does not think much of himself. Being confident could just be keeping your chin up, not letting things get to you and believing in yourself.


  • Be considerate and nice without getting stuck in the “friend” zone
    Lots of times guys get stuck in the “friend” zone and there is NO way to get out. Believe me, I have been there before and it sucked watching other guys go out with the girl I was trying to get. You can still be kind and considerate and open the door for her, compliment her on the way she looks, but definitely nothing further.


  • Take care of yourself
    This goes without saying. Although women in general care more for what’s on a guy’s mind than what he looks like, staying in shape and taking care of yourself does not really hurt either. Think about it, would you want to date someone that did not take care of the way she looked? What I am talking about here is basic hygiene. Brush your teeth, shave regularly, comb your hair, get haircuts regularly, do your laundry, do I need to go on? Thought not.


  • Have something to say
    There is a saying, small minds talk about others, average minds talk about current events, and great minds talk about ideas. Always have something to say. Talk about the weather, what’s in the news and more importantly ask more about her. One of the things I have found is that women like to talk about themselves and love a guy who will listen. And not just hear them, but actually listen, ponder it and respond. Always have something to say and always listen to what she is saying.


  • Be funny
    No one likes a stick in the mud. You don’t have to be a comedian, but be able to laugh at yourself. Women like a guy with a sense of humor. If you look at any of your friends who are not that great looking, I can almost guarantee they have a great personality or are really funny.


  • Control Yourself
    Man this is one I have seen a lot. Now I will admit there are some women that like a guy that gets angry and gets into fights, but again, these are not the women we are going to try to attract. Show that you have some class and self control, don’t blow up at the waiter if he forgets your water and don’t get drunk and start streaking in the middle of the bar.


  • Be sociable
    Women like a guy that can talk to their friends. One of the biggest green lights for a woman s when her friends approve of him. Don’t get along wither her friends and you will likely be just the stepping stone to the next guy.




I have just outlined some of the key factors I have used in attracting women. I will however say one last thing. One of my biggest wins has been to be myself, because at the end of the day if you pretend to be someone you are not, she will find out. So get out there and be patient, the right girl is waiting.

Wednesday, 26 September 2007

Dating Advice: Tip #1

Here's some free dating advice. We've all been there. You finally get that date you've been waiting for with the hot girl who you thought would never say 'yes', so what do you do? You reserve a table at the best restaurant in town, buy the expensive wine, send her flowers and lavish her with gifts.

A good friend of mine blew over one months salary on a girl in one week, just because he was so excited that he finally got that date with the girl he'd viewed from afar for months.

You can hardly blame the guy. Can you? Surely the woman is extremely appreciative of the attention, effort and money being lavished upon her? Well, after about 3 weeks she dumped him! Shocked?

Well, step back a little and let's see what signals you are giving to the woman. You may have had two or three dates so technically you hardly know each other. She's done nothing to really earn this, and yet you shower her with expensive gifts and dates in costly restaurants. She may even get a dozen roses just because... well, just because it's Wednesday! This reeks of desperation on the part of the male. You are saying "I know my value is less than yours, so I shall send you flowers and take you to the finest restaurants to compensate for this."

I know this goes against everything you've ever been taught and brought up to believe, but you really need to alter your mind-set. Lose the beta male mentality and become the alpha male.

Eventually, whether consciously or subconsciously, your date will find this desperation tedious and she'll move on (once you've been fleeced to the tune of several thousand of course).

One of the first steps in becoming the alpha male is to realise your own value. Get the mind-set of someone with a high social status. This may not come naturally at first, but it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Once you increase your self-esteem, others will look on you differently and with more respect, which in turn will boost your self-esteem further. Check the Alpha Male System for more on this.