How To Become An Alpha Male

"I don't get it!..."

"I've a nice car. I'm accomplished. My A-List CV make the next guy look funky. I even
wear the latest Armani! Why doesn't she flip for me? Why am I always alone??"

STOP!

How many times did you pound the dashboard of your Corvette bewailing this persistent question?

The avenue to Romance is littered with roadkill hearts and unrequited love.If you think you're unique in your loneliness, think again. There is enough dashboard pounding out there to start a global orchestra of dire distress.

But don't despair. Before you spin out of control, deploy the airbags fast. These strategic maneuvers should cruise you back on track:

1) Dress to Kill - all the time: No I don't intend that You wear that $5000 suit to the grocers or the Rolex to walk the dog. What I want you to do is is to dress decently each time you hit the streets. Dab on some cologne. Be neatly shaven. Men, women are everywhere. If you dress with flash only at the bar or the party, you're missing out on 95% of eligible women. Some of the best relationships were forged during chance encounters at the bus stop.

2) Bedroom Eyes - When exploring new relationships with that sexy stranger, intensify the eye contact. Lock deep into her pupils. Let the rest of the world disappear even as a horde of supermodels troop by. You will naturally thrill her with the attention as she experiences the tendrils of growing attraction. Ethnologists have a term for it, the copulatory gaze. Get your eyes even sexier by enlargening your pupils. Dr. Hess concluded that dilated pupils are far far more attractive to women after he presented hundreds of assorted pictures of men to test subjects. How does one get the pupils popping? Simply gaze at the most alluring parts of her face and fill your mind with loving caring thoughts. Your pupils naturally grow, endowing you with irresistible eyes.

3) Visual Caress - Get your eyes do some facial travelling as you chat. Linger a bit on the nose, traipse across the eyes and rest at the lips. Drink in her facial features as though you were admiring the Mona Lisa. She will delight in the attention!

4) Easter Eggs - Stumped at having nothing to say? Listen carefully for easter eggs as you talk. These are unusual words of phrases that she utters. Ask her to expound on it. Say "What's the story behind that?" or "How do you feel about that?". Women love to be probed for their opinions and their feelings.Gently bring out her emotions with sensitive open-ended questions.

5) Keep it Adrenaline Charged - Men talk facts: stock figures, bill payments, and boring engine specs. Women are different. They delight in FEELINGS TALK: how the new dress takes them to 7th heaven, how that special meal got them all giddy with ecstasy, how their shopping expedition drains their deepest problems away. Leverage this by steering away from facts talk. Pick out emotionally charged subjects and ask her how she especially relates to them. You'll be her new confidant!

I know what you're thinking. It's all common sense! That's true, but ask yourself this: how many of you actually practice this? Be honest.

Get out there and be the man women loves. Use your common sense!

The Alpha Male System - A Review

I've had a lot of people emailing me, asking me to do a full review of The Alpha Male System. Is this just yet another useless system and waste of your hard earned cash, or can you actually become the type of guy that effortlessly attracts women?

First thing.... because I KNOW you are wondering... this is NOT going to be just another one of those B.S. reviews. Why? Because there's no point. I know you're a smart cookie, and you'll see through any B.S. straight away, so I'd be wasting both your time and my time (and I really hate wasting my time).

I had a long think about how I was going to do this review. In total, the book is 159 pages, so how should I structure it? What are the things that you are looking to know before you can decide if it's worth parting with your money...

The thing that ALWAYS got me about most e-books was the 'pitch page'. You know, the bit where everything sounds too good to be true, but sucks you in because it gives you hope! So, that's where I am going to start. I'm going to look at the claims on the pitch page, and give you more detail (and my opinion) on exactly how these are tackled in the book.

The 7 Step Seduction System that takes you from saying “hello” to a new woman…to sharing orgasms in bed with her… in just one evening! Page 101

Boy, that's one big claim! Let me be honest. This was the line in the pitch that was the main reason for me wanting to buy this book. I mean... who wouldn't want to know 7 steps to getting a women into bed?!

Well, first thing I did when I downloaded the e-book was - Yup! You guessed it! - flicked straight to page 101. I read the seven steps. Frowned. Read them again. This wasn't exactly the 'magic' I was looking for. Like a lot of things, when you read it, it all sounds like common sense and straightforward.

Then, I went to the start of the chapter and read the whole chapter to get the 7 step system in context. NOW it was all starting to look like there was something special here. It even has many pages on WHERE to find women (I'm not talking about ads in phoneboxes guys!) This was very useful to me. There are the obvious ones, such as 'work' and 'weddings', right out to ones I hadn't considered before such as 'charity events'.

Now, I'm going to give you the first step in this 7-step system. Hopefully it won't get me into trouble, but it will allow you to empathise with the initial disappointment I felt on reading the list straight away:

1. You will walk by a woman and have a quick, neutral conversation.

See what I mean? Where's the magic? Where's the voodoo that's going to let me put a spell on these women...

My disappointment didn't last long, once I started reading the book properly. There is so much detail to back this up. Like I was saying, the bit on WHERE to meet women is a gem. And it's over 10 pages long! Of course, you need to approach women - get close to women - if you are going to take things further (unless you're into all that cyberspace crap of course). Sounds simple, but for most guys like me - like you - the biggest hurdle is approaching women.

"What do I say?"
"What if she rejects me?"
or...
"What do I do if she does actually like me!?" (panic sets in...)

All these points are covered and answered in some depth.

Avoid these 3 behaviors and you’ll immediately become so seductive that women will actually feel themselves getting “wetter” around you! Page 44

What are these 3 behaviours? Well, I'll give you a starter for 10 - the first two are 'bragging' and 'putting yourself down'. The third one is more subtle, but - I think - more powerful than the other two put together. I'm not going to reveal it here, because it would be unethical. If you really take these on board and learn to exhibit the behaviours, then yes, women are attracted to you and will look at you in a different light. In fact, not just with your sex life, but your power at work will increase too. I put into practice the techniques in this book, and it really helped my confidence at work. In turn this changed the way people viewed me.

With women, it's had a MASSIVE impact. The first day I downloaded the book, I just skimmed a few of the sections. That very night, I chatted up a girl at a bar in town and I KNEW it was leading somewhere. The only thing that stopped us was her boyfriend butting in after 10 minutes! I laughed to myself. This guy came back to his girl and was seriously spraying his scent all around her. LOL. Had implementing the techniques in the Alpha Male System really made me appear such a threat..?

I don't normally gush over things like this, so I won't make an exception here. Remember - I said you'll spot B.S. a mile off. This book is good though. It's well written and very easy to read (helped greatly by John's writing style).

Do women now fall at my feet, begging me to pleasure them? Honestly, no.

Do I feel more confident and powerful in my life, and do women look at me with undertones of sexual desire and interest? Well, I have to say they do. The techniques in the Alpha Male System if followed (it's all about action, guys!) will improve your life. You WILL improve yourself, your stature, your confidence and, in turn, change the way people think about you. You WILL gain more respect. You WILL get more interest from women, and with the information in this book you WILL then know what to do once you have a woman's interest. The book leads you every step of the way. In fact, the last section is like a sex manual - packed with incredibly hot tips on how to DRIVE YOUR GIRL WILD in bed! There's stuff in there I'd never heard of, and I can certainly vouch for the fact that it works. Boy does it work....


Give the Alpha Male System a go. You really have nothing to lose, because John offers you a money back guarantee if you are not totally satisfied. If you want to know more before you buy, just post below and I'll try and answer your question.

Conversational Hypnosis - Hypnotic Mind Seduction System

This is it! Conversational Hypnosis! I couldn't believe this when I saw it. If you truly want to become the best alpha male you can be, then you need to get this.

I'd already touched on this in my previous posts here and here, but this is an intensive course that will allow you to really reap the rewards.

I ordered it the other week and have started putting into practice some of the techniques, and I'm already seeing the difference it's making in meetings at work and just the general way in which people are treating me.

Yes, it's quite an investment to make, but that's exactly what it is - an investment.

At least that's the way I view it. You wouldn't believe how much effort I put into telling myself why I shouldn't buy such and such a thing, when actually the rewards could be huge! And yet, I don't even shudder when I pump $100/week of fuel into the car...

Anyway - time to get my priorities right I thought. (Of course, I still need the gas...) So I placed my order and downloaded the package straight away. There is a phenomenal amount of information here which will probably take months to give it the time it deserves.

The deal clincher for me was the endorsement from Joe Vitale. This guy is 'The Master' when it comes to hypnotic language, and many of you may have already read his best selling book on Hypnotic Language. There's some great stuff in there about embedding commands and pre-suppositions. With Conversational Hypnosis though, it's all about the spoken word. 

I know I'm going to enjoy this, and I'll report back as I progress to Ninja-like status!

Something BIG is coming!

Guys - you are just gonna love what I'm revealing later this week. I only recommend stuff when I absolutely believe in it and it completely works, and this is definitely one of those things.

How does this sound?

• Have influence over anyone, and I mean anyone!
  
• Attract women like you never thought possible
  
• Compel people to do what you simply suggest
  
• Be top dog when it comes to negotiations
  
• Get people to buy more from you if you are in sales
  

Believe me, this will change your life. If you've ever been frustrated because you can't get people to do what you want, this will give you the skills to literally hypnotise anyone into following your lead.

I'll reveal more later this week. Grab my RSS feed to get notified immediately, as it really is one of those things you want to be first on board with.

Become The Alpha Male: Get the girl with mind control

Think about people you are drawn to; people you find attractive. What makes them stand out from the crowd and win both your attention and your affections? More than likely it's the way they act and the mood they portray. To become an alpha male you need to work on giving off the right aura. Once you have learned to do this, you will find a marked improvement in the way women and men look at you, which will have impact on your love life and career.

We all know what it's like when that person in the office or at school who is in a bad mood, and everyone tries their hardest to keep out of their way all day. It is so obvious when you think about it, but your mood completely determines what people think about you and how they interact with you (or, whether they interact with you at all!) So how do you change your mood and improve your sphere of influence to help you become an alpha male?

It is all mind over matter. Your mood is created entirely by the thoughts you are focusing on. If you are thinking about how much work you have to get through, how late you are going to be working tonight to finish that report for presentation tomorrow, or how badly that presentation or job interview went, then it is bound to have a negative impact on your mood. People will pick up on this, and well, you just won't be a fun guy to be around.

Take a few minutes at the start of each day to get yourself in the right frame of mind. Firstly, clear your mind through meditation, and then visualize your day where only great things happen. You might see yourself walking into the office or the school where you study, and people are shouting hello, and all the pretty girls are smiling coyly at you. Your boss or teacher then commends you on that fabulous report you submitted last week. The girl you've had the hots for passes by your desk, giving you her phone number and says 'Why don't you call me later...'

OK, so all that may sound somewhat far fetched, but enjoy the moment. These are your images you are creating, purely in your mind, so they need to be magnificent! I guarantee that just the act of thinking about these things will improve your mood which in turn will improve your interactions with people throughout the day which will then continue to improve your mood. Do you see where I'm coming from on this? It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

In itself, this won't make you become an alpha male overnight, but improving your mood through positive thinking is an important trick to learn and part of your alpha male toolset you should use daily.

5 Alpha-Male Characteristics You Should Develop

1 - Watch Your Body Language

Stand and walk tall. Maintain eye contact with people. Studies have shown that the more eye contact a person makes during the conversation the more dominant they are perceived to be.

2 - Your Voice

Control the conversation. People who use a soft and quiet voice can sometimes come across as being submissive.

3 - Speaking too much

Okay, controlling the conversation doesn't necessarily mean having verbal diarrhea and talking the hind legs off a donkey! Don't use unnecessarily long sentences! Brevity gives the impression of being self-assured. Keep to the point.

4 - Be Relaxed

Leaders are calm, collected people. Don't be belligerent with people.

5 - Excessive Smiling (Don't do it!)

Of course, be happy, but this doesn't mean you have to grin like a loon constantly. Beta males (opposite of Alpha Males) smile to show they are not a threat to people. Alpha males only smile when there's something to smile about.

Your life will improve considerably if you learn to become the alpha male. Not just in personal relationships, but also with work.

The Alpha Male

On my regular train journey yesterday, a tall guy with long-ish wavy blonde hair, sat himself down at a table with one other man and two girls and began to engage in conversation. After only 30 seconds they were laughing, smiling and hanging on his every word. This is the alpha male at work.

I tuned in to what I could of the conversation, to learn tales of Monaco, motor racing, meeting a Prince, driving fast cars...

Now, I have no idea whether these tales were the well-worn anecdotes of an international playboy who lives the most incredibly exciting life, or indeed if this was a direct descendant of Baron Munchausen. What I can tell you though is that they SOUNDED convincing. They were told well enough to captivate and hold the attention of his train-bound audience, but not too fanciful to ring alarm bells that this was a fiction-meister of the highest order.

This guy was an alpha male.

So, how do you become the alpha male? First, you need to understand the characteristics that make the alpha male.

At his simplest, the alpha-male is the person that other people look up to; leaders, people who are respected. Note, that in this post I use words such as he/him/himself; primarily male. However, women also have the capacity to exhibit the alpha-male characteristics; we'll explore that in the future.

Back to the man on the train; watching him I could see that he marked out his territory, not only with what he was saying, but also with how he was sitting, and his mannerisms. He looked confident and at ease with himself. I imagine he wouldn't have really cared what his audience thought of him - the alpha male doesn't ("it's their loss") - but his way of controlling the conversation and using strong eye contact put his new friends at ease and made them feel comfortable. It's worth saying at this point that you must learn how to do this without coming across as merely brash and arrogant. You'll win no friends that way.

Throughout this blog, I will explore and explain these characteristics in detail and teach you how to become the alpha male. For now, you may be interested in looking at this book here to give yourself a solid grounding in becoming an alpha male.